Tantra by Freya

Tantra
Ecstatic passion for life

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, paralyzed by fear of life?
Here, you’ll uncover who you truly are and reclaim
the deep, embodied pleasure of life.
Fully empowered, wildly passionate, and thriving in conscious, fulfilling relationships.

Answer yourself if...

  • Does something inside you feel frozen?
  • Is your body numb, disconnected from its aliveness?
  • Are you stuck in a relationship that no longer feeds your soul?
  • Do you feel tightness, fear, loneliness, or the ache of rejection?
  • Do you crave deep agency over your emotions but feel lost in them?
  • Are you afraid to fully own and express your true desires?
If this stirs something in you, keep reading - your liberation begins here.
Do you want more,
stronger,
juicier?

Or maybe you're crafting a different reality?

  • Are you thriving but feeling the pull to expand even further?
  • Do you crave deep growth, untamed experiences, and the freedom to break old patterns?
  • Do you long to celebrate life with wild pleasure, to feel its depth in every breath and moment?
  • Do you desire intimacy that is more sacred, more electrifying, more whole?
  • Are you ready to unlock deeper connection, to sustain harmony and ignite your life force?
Keep reading - your next level of expansion starts here.

Wherever you stand, we have tools to take you further.

Tantric workshops

Tantric workshops in Poland and beyond.
Weekend immersions, week-long retreats, and year-long tantric massage trainings.
A space to connect, awaken, and explore within the tantric community..

Tantric courses online

Practical Tantra courses.
Introduction to Tantra and conscious sexuality, Tantra Fundamentals, Tantric techniques, Tantra Massage techniques, and Advanced Tantric Practices.

Individual programs

Personalized coaching programs for deep sexual awakening and conscious intimacy.
Transformational journeys using embodied practices for personal growth and empowerment.

Tantric massage

Tantric massage sessions with accredited practitioners.
Tantric massage courses and deep training in the art of touch.
Teacher training at TantraSOMA™ Academy
From "I have no choice" to "I choose." Stepping into full sovereignty over your life and desires.

I am Freya, and I’m here to guide you on
the path
to awakened, fulfilled life.

My vision is a world where “I must conform” transforms into “I CHOOSE”—where you awaken your power, embody your freedom, and move through life with conscious sovereignty.
For over 20 years I have been working with people of different cultures and backgrounds, helping them discover the fullness of their sexuality and achieve profound life transformation. I conduct workshops, individual sessions and trainings all over the world. This gives me a unique perspective and tools to effectively support the participants of my workshops and my school in their personal transformations.
After years of studying with many teachers and thousands of hours of practice and work, I created the TantraSOMA™ method, combining knowledge from tantra, neuroscience, process psychology and bodywork methods.
10k+
satisfied participants
20+
years of experience
6k+
hours of individual sessions
Since 2016, I have been leading Poland’s first Professional Year-Long Tantra Massage Training—a deeply immersive, transformational journey into the art of touch, energy, and embodiment. This is one of the most comprehensive tantric programs, designed to unlock profound personal and professional mastery. Graduates who continue their path at TantraSOMA Academy™ emerge as some of the most skilled and internationally recognized tantric massage practitioners.
With years of experience, I intuitively shape my work session to meet your unique needs, guiding you through deep layers of healing, expansion, and awakening. This is a space where your body feels safe, your energy flows freely, and your transformation unfolds with full support.

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What is Tantra?
What is Tantra and what is it not?

Tantra is often linked to eroticism, but at its core, it is an ancient system for exploring human consciousness and mastering energy.
Rooted in the understanding that the entire universe is a matrix of energy, Tantra teaches how to harness this force for deep transformation and expanded states of awareness.
Like modern science, Tantra is not based on dogma but on direct experience and embodied exploration. With over 5,000 years of practice, its methods help dissolve mental and emotional blockages, unlocking a state of freedom, harmony, and wholeness.
Life’s challenges become gateways to expansion, allowing you to push past limitations and experience existence as a continuous flow, where your full potential naturally unfolds.
Sexual energy, one of the most potent forces within, in Tantra is seen as is a sacred fuel for our deepest awakening, a gateway to transformation, pleasure, and limitless expansion.

Why Tantra?
Breaking free from old patterns isn’t easy

Despite the pain, we often stay stuck in discomfort because our brains are wired with deeply ingrained neural pathways—patterns shaped by repetition, running on autopilot beyond our awareness. Breaking free requires more than willpower; it demands something powerful enough to disrupt the old cycle and create new, conscious ways of being.
Freud spoke of two opposing forces within us: Eros—the drive toward life—and Thanatos—the pull toward destruction. By unlocking the raw force of Eros, we activate a state where deep transformation becomes possible. When our bodies and brains enter this heightened state, we can rewire old conditioning, replacing outdated reactions with new, embodied responses.
True change doesn’t happen by talking about it—it must be felt, lived, breathed into existence. You can’t win Olympic gold just by listening to a sports podcast. You have to train, experience, and fully immerse yourself in the process.

TantraSOMA™ Method
The fusion of Tantra with modern science

We have woven together the wisdom of Tantra with a modern understanding of the body, mind, and energy into the TantraSOMA™ method. Secular in nature, this method bridges ancient tantric wisdom with modern neuroscience and integrative psychology, creating a powerful synthesis for transformation
Through breath, awareness, and movement, the TantraSOMA™ method allows for the release of blockages, an increase in vitality, and a deeper experience of pleasure. Its purpose is to restore the natural flow within the body and reduce anxiety levels. This opens the gateway to unlocking the full potential of the brain and consciously creating new patterns of thought and behavior.
Sexuality is honored here as a natural expression of life force energy—woven into the wider ecosystem of human existence.
TantraSOMA™ is a method of conscious embodiment and inner work, grounded in bioenergetics, somatic tantric techniques, elements of Process-Oriented Psychology (POP), and coaching. Rooted in a trauma-informed approach, it recognizes the energetic imprints held in the body and gently supports their release—opening the path to deeper pleasure, authenticity, and the unbound flow of life force.
TantraSOMA™ is a journey of returning to your true essence—through body, breath, touch, and deep presence.
If you long to feel more, love deeper, and live with greater passion—TantraSOMA™ will guide you into that depth.
“Awaken your body. Open your heart.
Immerse yourself fully.“

Claim your spot in one of our workshops today!

  • You will reclaim the deep knowing that your life is truly yours.
  • You will awaken to sensual pleasure and soulful expansion.
  • You will break free from the feeling of being stuck and step into your full flow.

Ready to ignite deep transformation in your life?

How long will you keep walking in shoes that don’t fit? You have only one life—no one else can change it for you. The only person with true power over your path is you. You can’t rewrite your past or control others, but you can begin your transformation right here, right now. And if you choose, you can invite your partner to walk this journey with you.

Frequently asked questions

Tantra is an ancient path of consciousness development that originates from India and Tibet. It arose over 2000 years ago as a spiritual tradition integrating the body, mind, energy, and spirituality. Its foundation is the recognition that everything that exists — the material world, emotions, senses, sexuality, everyday experiences — is an expression of the Divine.

Unlike many spiritual systems that aim to “overcome” the body or disconnect from pleasure, Tantra teaches that awakening can occur precisely through the body — through conscious feeling, presence, and the integration of everything human within us.

What Tantra is not

Tantra is often mistakenly portrayed as an “exotic art of sex” or a set of sexual techniques. This is a major oversimplification that diminishes and distorts its meaning.

Sexuality in Tantra is not the goal, but one of the gateways — important, but not the only one. It is not about techniques, but about the quality of being: presence, depth, authenticity, connection.

Tantra is also not a form of therapy or a quick “trick” to improve a relationship.  It is a path — personal, embodied, and often demanding — that leads to greater self-awareness, openness to life, and trust in one’s own power.

Tantra is for anyone who feels that they are searching for something more in life. For those who no longer want to just function — but want to truly live. To feel. To breathe. To be in connection with themselves and with others. To experience depth, truth, and intimacy.

You don’t have to be a “spiritual person.”
You don’t need to know anything about yoga, meditation, or bodywork.
You don’t have to be in a relationship or have a specific goal. Tantra is not reserved for the chosen few — it is for anyone who is ready to meet themselves.

To meet what is real, alive, and sometimes difficult. To meet what is beautiful, touched, and full of power.

Tantra is for you if:

  • you feel that something inside you has gone dormant — joy, passion, sensuality, vitality — and you want to awaken it,
  • you feel disconnected from your body, or your body has become a place of tension, shame, or control instead of a source of pleasure and wisdom,
  • you long for closeness, deep connection, and true intimacy — with yourself, with another person, with life,
  • you feel that sexual energy is more than just a physical act — it’s a creative force you want to relate to consciously,
  • you need to come back to yourself after difficult experiences — relationships, abuse, wounds,
  • you are tired of living on autopilot and want to feel what it really means to be present,
  • you are ready to meet your shadow — with love, courage, and gentleness.

Tantra is for women and men, for non-binary people, for singles and those in relationships — monogamous or open. There is no single “type” of participant. At workshops, you’ll find young and mature people, spiritual and rational people, those seeking healing, depth, joy, expression, silence, presence. What connects participants in Tantric practice is the longing to live in truth.  The longing to live in connection — with the body, with emotions, with sexuality, with the soul, with another human being. 
Tantra is not a goal — it is a path.
If you want to walk it — even slowly, even with uncertainty, but with an open heart — you are warmly welcome.
Your body, your pleasure, your truth, and your energy — all of this can become part of your awakening

No, Tantra is not a religion — although it has its roots in the spiritual traditions of India and Tibet, it is not a belief system, it is not based on dogma, and it does not require belonging to any religion. Tantra is rather a path of experience. It doesn’t tell you what to believe in — it invites you to feel — your body, your energy, your truth. Instead of searching “up above,” it teaches you how to go deeper here — into yourself, into your senses, into your heart, into life in its fullness.

Tantra does not place priests between you and something greater. It teaches that the sacred is accessible without intermediaries — in your breath, in your touch, in your presence, in your love. Although it grew out of spiritual contexts — including Hinduism and Buddhism — from the very beginning, it was a rebellion against rigid religious structures. It allowed what was forbidden: the body, sexuality, emotions, the shadow. It was practiced by priests as well as ordinary people, by women, by the marginalized. Its message was simple, though revolutionary: everything is part of the Sacred — if lived consciously.

Contemporary Tantra — especially in currents such as TantraSOMA™ — is not associated with any religion. It is open to believers, seekers, agnostics, and non-believers. You don’t need to adopt any doctrines to practice Tantra. All that’s needed is the willingness to be in contact with yourself — true, embodied, and aware.

Is there room for spirituality in Tantra?

Yes — but not a kind of spirituality based on “escaping the body.” Rather, it is a spirituality rooted in experience. In presence. In ecstasy and in silence. In a deep yes to life as it is. For many people, Tantric practice becomes a gateway to personal spirituality — not something imposed from outside, but something discovered within. Sometimes it is an encounter with the divine inside. Sometimes with life energy itself. Sometimes with a space beyond words, yet deeply real. Tantra will not tell you who God is. But it will help you meet what is most profound, most tender, and most alive within you.

It depends on the context in which it is practiced — and on who is guiding the process. 

In itself, Tantra is a path that can be deeply healing, transformative, and supportive, but also moving and intense. 

That’s why it is so important that it is practiced in safe conditions, with respect for your boundaries, readiness, and personal pace. 

In the approach I share — based on embodied, conscious, and respectful Tantra — safety is the absolute foundation

What does that mean? 

Your boundaries are sacred

In Tantra, you are never forced to do anything. Every exercise, every form of contact is an invitation, not an obligation. You can say “no,” you can opt out, you can step away — and this will be fully respected. We learn not only to feel the boundaries of others, but above all, our own. 

We work with the body’s readiness, not the mind’s expectations

Tantra often touches deep layers — emotional, energetic, physical. It’s a process that can bring to the surface things that have been hidden for years. That’s why it’s so important to follow your body’s rhythm, not to push, not to try to “achieve” anything. In conscious practice, it’s not about “crossing boundaries” — but about learning to feel them in the first place. 

Everything takes place in a space of respect, guided by experienced facilitators

In professionally held Tantric workshops — such as those within the TantraSOMA™ approach — the space is created with care, clarity of intention, and deep ethical standards. Facilitators are trained in working with the body, emotions, sexuality, and trauma, and participants are supported throughout every stage of the process. 

Safety is also the relationship you have with yourself

Tantra is not always comfortable — it can touch parts of us that have been pushed into shadow for years. But even difficult moments can be profoundly healing — when you are in honesty with yourself, surrounded by a safe environment, and don’t have to prove anything to anyone. In Tantra, it’s not about “getting through” an experience — but about being present within it — gently, tenderly, in alignment with yourself. 

This is one of the most frequently asked — and most important — questions. 
Because although the terms Tantra and Tantric sex are often used interchangeably, they actually mean two very different things.  

Tantra is a path of embodied spirituality

Tantra is an ancient tradition of consciousness development that embraces the entire human experience — not only sexuality, but also emotions, the body, relationships, the shadow, life energy, spirituality, and working with the mind and heart. 

It is a path that invites deep, authentic connection with yourself and with life — through breath, body, presence, awareness, energy, senses, and relationships. 

Tantra may, but does not have to, include work with sexuality. 

For many people, Tantric practice begins with breath, movement, connection with the body and emotions — long before any sexual exploration appears.  Sexuality is just one of many dimensions of life that can be brought into awareness and healing — but it is not a goal in itself

Tantric sex is just one aspect of Tantra 

Tantric sex refers to a conscious, present, and energetic way of making love — based on Tantric principles such as: 

  • combining breath, movement, and energy,
  • slowing down and deepening the sensory experience,
  • presence and communication between partners,
  • exploring sexual energy as a life force,
  • uniting sexuality with the heart, soul, and trust.

Tantric sex can be a deeply profound experience — a meeting of bodies, hearts, souls, and energy. It can be healing, spiritual, and transformative. But it does not represent the entirety of Tantra. 

Simply put: 

Tantra is a spiritual and embodied path of growth — which may include working with sexuality, but is by no means limited to it. 

Tantric sex is a way of experiencing sexuality in the Tantric spirit — consciously, deeply, energetically, and with presence. 

Why is this distinction important? 

In popular culture, Tantra has often been reduced to “the art of sex,” exotic bedroom games, or “tricks” to prolong orgasm. This simplification causes many people to overlook how deep and transformative true Tantric practice really is. Tantra is not about “techniques.”  It is an invitation to authenticity. To meet what is alive, real, and feeling. To live fully. 

No. Tantra is not reserved for couples — it is for anyone who desires to know themselves more deeply: their body, their energy, emotions, desires, boundaries, and inner truth.
It is an individual path, although often experienced in relationship — not necessarily a romantic one.  You can practice Tantra alone, with a partner, a friend, someone from a workshop group, or in meditation with yourself.

Tantra is, above all, a relationship with yourself — with your body, your breath, your feeling, your sexuality, your heart, and your soul. Everything else grows from this foundation.

A Tantra workshop is a space where you can meet yourself — deeply, truly, without masks. It’s a time when your body, breath, emotions, energy, and presence become your guides. It’s not about learning techniques.  It’s also not about “doing things right.” It’s about experience — contact with what is alive, moved, authentic. With yourself, with another person, with the energy of life. 

What does such a workshop look like in practice?

Each workshop may look a little different — depending on the theme, the facilitators, and the level of advancement. But there are common elements that appear almost always: 

Opening and creating a safe space

At the beginning, we create a circle where the rule is: you don’t have to do anything — you are invited to everything. We learn to respect our own boundaries and communicate them. We explain the agreements that ensure safety and mutual respect. 

Working with breath, movement, and sound 

These are Tantra’s basic tools — simple, yet powerful. They help release tension, reconnect with the body and energy, drop out of the head and anchor in the here and now. 

Practices of presence, feeling, and connection

These may be solo exercises, partner work, or small group practices — always with clear instructions, with the option to choose, and with space for both “yes” and “no.” 

Examples: 

  • eye gazing,
  • synchronized breathing,
  • intuitive dance,
  • conscious touch (clothed or as self-touch),
  • grounding practices and connecting with the heart.
Working with emotions and energy 

Tantra invites you to meet yourself in wholeness — including what’s difficult: fear, shame, anger, pain. Sometimes there are tears, sometimes laughter, sometimes a sense of relief. Everything is welcome. Nothing needs to be different than it is. 

Practices with sexual energy (in some workshops) 

In some more advanced workshops, you may encounter practices involving sexual energy — but this is not about sex or nudity. It is an exploration of how life energy moves through the body, how to consciously guide it, how to feel and transform it. Everything happens with respect, full consent, and transparency. Nothing ever happens without your choice. 

Meditation, sharing circles, integration 

At the end of the day, there is often time for sharing, meditation, being in silence, or sitting in the circle again.  It’s a moment of integration and a return to yourself. 

What is not part of a Tantra workshop? 

  • no requirement to undress
  • no pressure for physical closeness
  • no sexual “rituals”
  • no judgment or comparison
  • no boundary crossing

A Tantra workshop is a journey inward. Sometimes it is gentle, tender, subtle. Sometimes moving and transformative. Always — if guided with intention, awareness, and integrity — it can become a space where you feel: I am home

Tantric massage is a deeply transformative experience that combines conscious touch, presence, and energy work. It is much more than a relaxing body massage — it is a ritual, a practice of presence, and a journey into oneself. 

What distinguishes Tantric massage from other forms of massage is the quality of presence, intention, and mindfulness with which each touch is given. It is not about technique — but about relationship: between the giver and the receiver, between the body and energy, between awareness and pleasure. 

What happens during a Tantric massage? 

In a safe and carefully held space, the person receiving the massage is invited to relax, to trust, and to be fully present in their body. The massage can include the entire body — from feet to head — with respect for boundaries, readiness, and consent. It is usually offered in silence or with gentle music, with deep breathing, sensual oil, often dim lighting, and a calm, intimate atmosphere. The touch is slow, soft, present — an invitation to pause, to feel, to immerse yourself in subtle sensations. 
This is not a massage with a “goal.” 
It’s not about relaxing muscles, but about meeting the aliveness in the body. During a Tantric massage, sexual energy may be awakened — but not as a sexual act, only as life force (Shakti) flowing through the body.  It is natural, beautiful, and nothing “has to happen” with it. Pleasure can be experienced here without pressure, without goal, without control

Is Tantric massage sexual?

This is one of the most common misunderstandings. Tantric massage is not a sexual service.  It’s not about arousal, release of tension, or “delivering pleasure” in the conventional sense. Sexuality may be present — as energy, as sensation, as connection with pleasure —  but it is never forced, nor is it treated instrumentally. 
In a professionally held Tantric massage space: 

  • full consent and clear communication are required,
  • touch never crosses your boundaries,
  • there is no sexual act or mutual erotic contact,

you can feel completely safe, no matter what arises within you. 

What can Tantric massage bring? 

  • deep relaxation and regeneration,
  • a renewed meeting with your body — without judgment, in full acceptance,
  • healing your relationship with pleasure, sexuality, and sensuality,
  • release of tension, emotions, and stuck energy,
  • opening to trust, closeness, and feeling,
  • connection with life energy and inner power.

Kundalini is a term used in Tantric and Yogic traditions to describe the inner, dormant life energy located at the base of our spine — in the pelvic area.  In Tantric texts, it is described as a coiled serpent (Sanskrit: kundala – “coil”), waiting to awaken and rise up through the spine, piercing successive energy centers (chakras) until it reaches the crown of the head.

Sounds mystical? Perhaps. But in practice, it refers to something very real. 

What is kundalini energy in our experience?

It is a powerful life force that we all carry within us. It’s the same energy that awakens our creativity, sexuality, vitality, intuition, and expression. It’s the energy that gives rise to dance, laughter, creation, love, awakening to life. 
When kundalini energy is asleep — we feel dull, closed off, disconnected from our bodies, blocked. 
When it begins to move — there’s more flow, joy, power, clarity, feeling. The body comes alive. The mind quiets. There is more trust and presence in the moment. 

How does kundalini energy awaken?

In Tantra, kundalini energy is not forced — it is gently invited. 
Through:

  • breath,
  • conscious movement,
  • working with sound and the pelvis,
  • healing the relationship with sexuality and the body,
  • presence that dissolves tension and control.

This is very delicate work. Kundalini does not need to be “awakened by force. It awakens when the body feels safe — when we are not pretending, not pushing, not fighting ourselves. 

What happens when kundalini begins to flow?

This can look different for different people.  Sometimes it feels like: 

  • warmth in the body,
  • trembling, pulsing, spontaneous movement,
  • sound arising naturally,
  • waves of emotion, love, ecstasy, or tears,
  • a sensation of light or energy moving through the spine,
  • a deep connection with something greater — beyond words.

These are not “special effects” —  this is the body returning to feeling.  Energy that was blocked begins to flow again. 

Kundalini is not something foreign within us.

It is us — in our unrestrained version.  It is life that wants to dance, breathe, love, and create through us.  It is not a goal to be achieved — but something that can happen when we stop resisting.

An energetic orgasm is a deeply felt, multidimensional experience in which sexual energy —understood as life force — begins to move through the body freely, intensely, and consciously. Unlike a genital orgasm, which is typically localized in the genitals and often involves tension and release, an energetic orgasm encompasses the entire body, and sometimes also the emotional, spiritual, and energetic realms. It’s not necessarily a peak moment — rather, a state of openness, flow, and expansion. It’s pleasure without a “climax,” pulsing and rippling through the body like a wave of life itself. 

How can one experience it?

An energetic orgasm can happen spontaneously or arise through conscious practice — for example, during: 

  • Tantric massage,
  • breathwork (such as connected breathing),
  • somatic practices or meditation,
  • exploring sexuality in a Tantric context,
  • deep connection with the body, sensation, and energy.

It doesn’t require genital stimulation — it can be evoked through breath, sound, movement, touch, or even pure presence and body awareness. 

Some people experience it as: 

  • tremors, spontaneous movement, or shaking,
  • waves of warmth, tingling, or light,
  • expansion in the chest, belly, or hands,
  • strong emotional release, tears, laughter, joy,
  • a sense of unity, ecstasy, or connection to something greater.

Can anyone experience this? 

Yes — but it’s not a “goal to achieve” or a reward for “doing it right.” It’s more of a natural byproduct of opening to sensation, pleasure, flow, and presence in the body. Everybody holds the potential to experience orgasm in a fuller, more integrated way — less confined by cultural conditioning. But it requires safety, trust, and awareness — not pressure, not technique, not performance.

Why do we talk about this in Tantra? 

Because Tantra views sexuality as a sacred dimension of life — not only physical, but also energetic, spiritual, and creative. Energetic orgasm is a reflection of how much can open within us when we stop limiting pleasure to one part of the body or one fixed script. 

It’s not “better” than a genital orgasm — it’s different. It expands our understanding of pleasure, presence, and the life force moving through the body. 

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